My name is James, i graduated from UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS EL PASO (BUSINESS ADMIN)I am looking for the woman that can touch my heart and complete my soul. Someone I can truly give my heart to that isn’t playing games or telling lies because I am a very real man who does neither. No games here. I know what I want and I need a woman who knows what she wants. I am seeking a long term relationship that begins with friendship and evolves from there.

I am down-to-earth, laid back and I have a great sense of humor (at least that is what I have been told). I have stopped stressing over situations and people that I cannot change. Life is way too short. I love to laugh and if you can make me laugh..that is definitely a plus. I dont mind someone who can be goofy and serious in the right situations. I am very passionate about how I feel, what I want and for those I love. When I give my heart, I give it with no reservations. Which is why I have been hurt many times, but I am not niave. To love is to grow. I can be quiet or very outspoken, depending on the situation..do dont underestimate me. I consider myself very independent but not totally that I dont need someone to share my life with. Emotionally,

I need someone who can be there, to talk, to listen and to lean on. Someone who is n’t afraid of opening up to me and who can communicate because only then will you truly know a person’s heart. Of course, there has to be physical attraction but what attracts me the most is personality and intellect. I can hold a great conversation about any topic and I need a woman who can stimulate my intellectually, not only physically. She would have to be able to accept that I will not always agree with her and I have my own ideas about life because I will definitely let her know about them. I am educated and goal oriented and would like to build my life and future with that someone special that believes those things are important.